What just happened is not an isolated event. Things like this happen on a beautifully regular basis in my life. They are why I turned from someone who thought the world was completely doomed, to believing that the world is filled with beautiful, kind, caring souls. I’d been hanging out … Continue reading
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We all thought we wanted the mysterious, romantic “bad guy.” We thought we wanted the guy that had feelings as deep as the ocean, and knew exactly what to say. It’s natural to want to be a part of that enticing image painted before you in romance novels and movies with pretty bad actors. However, often times the reality is not as beautiful as the dream. That guy isn’t really the best guy. The excitement of the drama wears away quickly when the stress and instability start to swallow you. We all want the epic love, but the best lovers are also the best friends.
The men you stay with are the ones with dependable, honest, comical and caring natures. They are the ones that put you first, and bring simple laughter to your life, rather than more stress. They are laid back and positive. They don’t try to consume…
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People are like puzzle pieces. You search and search for the right ones. You pick up a few that don’t fit, and frustratingly place them back in the pile. A few fall on the floor, and you seemingly lose them forever at that point. A few feel absolutely impossible to find. But sometimes, a piece just fits. You don’t have to rotate it around. You don’t have to force it into the space. It just falls into place seamlessly. Sometimes, relationships are like that too. Sometimes, you just fit, and it’s incredibly clear that you are supposed to be that way.
1. Your personalities compliment each other well, and you bring out the brightest, most comfortable versions of each other.
2. You appreciate and are genuinely interested in each other’s passions.
3. You get along simply as friends, naturally and easily. Even when you do disagree, i’ts clear that you’re working…
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What is the thing you desire most in a relationship? What is the crucial piece you crave or must have in order for your heart to sing? After my marriage ended, I swore I would never be in another relationship without a deep connection. I wanted someone to ‘get me’ and I them.
A key element to have in common with your partner?
According to a study of 375 married couples done by Myers Briggs, the most likely function to have in common with your spouse is the perceiving one; the one that explains how you take in the world and what information you like and trust. There are two options in the perceiving category: Sensing and Intuition. We all use both options to a degree but people who have a Sensing preference are more comfortable with facts, details, sequential steps, past experience and the information that is available to the senses…
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we are just weird in general…
That time of the season where i wish i have a significant other…
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